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Chapter 360 3 from 4

Chapter 360 Three Obediences and Four Gains

Her previous goal was very clear, which was to break away from her original family, have her own house, and have a stable income.

A room, a job, a cat, a dog, that's what she strives for.

Now, a friend of mine will make some money with Wei Wei in the future during the reform and opening up, then buy a few houses and collect rent, and then travel around with Wei Wei.

A friend, a few houses, and enough savings for her to squander, this is her goal now.

But apart from friends, the others can only be started after the reform and opening up. Now I just lie down with my friends.

But she didn't know how to tell them all this, because most of it couldn't be told.

When Wei Wei heard Liu Jiaojiao's words, she suddenly remembered a topic she had seen on the Internet before. She found that it seemed quite suitable for their current situation, so she did not hide it.

"If we girls don't have a goal, we just need to move forward in one direction. We can't say that girls can also use the same principles as boys, that is, the three obediences and four gains."

Hearing Wei Wei's words, everyone in the room was shocked. They wondered if they were hallucinating! They could actually hear such feudal words as "Three Obediences and Four Virtues" from Wei Wei's mouth.

Wei Wei has nothing to do with this thing at all.

Jiang Qi asked directly, "What feudal remnants are you talking about? Are you having a fever?"

Wei Wei waved her hands, "No, um... um..."

Wei Wei thought about it and really didn't know how to explain the origin of this statement.

"How should I put it? I've heard this from some teachers: women in the new era should obey the Three Obediences and Earn Four Points, and these Three Obediences and Earn Four Points include two types.

The first type of "three obediences" are to follow politics, law and business; the four "gains" are to gain power, influence, profit and wealth.

The second type of "three obediences" are to follow agriculture, industry and the army; the four "gains" are to study, to practice, to take responsibility and to gain rights.

I think as long as I start towards this goal, move forward and restrain myself according to this goal, nothing will go wrong.

Of course, I would like to add here that letting you do business does not mean asking you to do business on your own.

Otherwise, if you get into trouble, don't say that it was my fault. I won't take responsibility for it.

Our country also has departments dedicated to business, and we can work in that direction."

Everyone else in the room was dumbfounded when they heard this. These words really shocked them.

It can be said that none of the words said before had shocked them as much as these few words.

Go into politics, law, business, agriculture, industry, and the military, gain power, influence, profit, wealth, learn, practice, responsibility, and rights.

These thirty or so words are deafening and make people's blood boil, regardless of gender.

As soon as Jiang Qi heard this, he immediately knew who "those teachers" were. They must be those netizens, but what he said really seemed to make a lot of sense.

These dozens of words are all to the point and hit the nail on the head.

Regarding this, Wei Wei does not expect people of this era to understand these things.

When she saw these words, she was deeply touched, and she really felt that this was what they should pursue.

And it's not just these, you can even work in the media. Multimedia is easy to do, and many mothers are engaged in this.

For contemporary women, they can obey everything except their husbands, otherwise they will easily fail miserably.

Wei Wei looked at Jiang Qi, "What do you think?"

Jiang Qi couldn't help but exclaim in admiration, "It's all the essence, and it hits the nail on the head."

Contemporary netizens are truly worthy of being the kind of people that even Jia Xu feels ashamed of. This is absolutely the essence of the essence.

Yu Xi looked at Wei Wei in surprise, "Which teacher came up with this? It's really sharp."

He really wanted to meet and visit him. Anyone who could say such words must be a talent.

Wei Wei thought for a moment and said, "Someone that Jia Xu feels inferior to. As for who they are, I don't know them either."

How could she possibly know who came up with it over the Internet? Even if she knew, she couldn't say it out loud.

Yu Xi was a little disappointed when he heard this, but Wei Wei didn't know so she didn't ask any more questions.

Jiang Qi thought about the current situation and couldn't help but add, "We can also add another student to study medicine."

Hearing this, Wei Wei rolled her eyes and said, "God bless you for encouraging others to study medicine."

Hearing this, the people in the room were stunned again. Li Zhibin couldn't help but ask, "What kind of statement is this?"

Why can’t I study medicine? Isn’t the profession of doctor a good one?

“Because it is very difficult to become a medical student, and you have to learn very well.

If you want to become a master, what do you rely on? Accumulation and experience.

Holding that book every day, getting up earlier than the chickens and sleeping later than the dogs, you can study for more than ten years. So do you want to learn it? Do you have the perseverance?"

Li Zhibin fell silent after hearing this. He really didn't have the perseverance, but it seemed that he had gained more strange knowledge.

Wei Wei looked at Jiang Qi, "I think we can also add self-respect, self-love, self-reliance, and self-improvement.

Respect yourself, love yourself, stand up for yourself, and make yourself stronger."

Others in the room: ...

The silence was deafening.

This is the first time I know what self-respect and self-love mean, but it seems that it is not wrong to say that she is wrong.

Wei Wei looked at Liu Jiaojiao and Wu Mei, who were still in shock. "I think the best blessing for women is to be successful and flourish, rather than to have children early and raise them."

In fact, when Wei Wei saw Liu Jiaojiao just now, she sighed in her heart, what a pity.

Such a beautiful girl, with such a good family and such a good starting point, is just a love-brained girl who only knows how to follow Yu Xi. It's really a pity.

But she didn't intervene at that time. It was not someone else's business. She treated Liu Jiaojiao with respect for their fate.

As for Wu Mei's words, they can only be regarded as a kind reminder.

As for whether she can listen to it or not, that’s up to her; she’s just an outsider.

After all, Wu Mei is a very traditional girl. Maybe because she is the oldest in the family, she has a sense of responsibility, a responsibility to her original family.

Wei Wei doesn’t think this is bad, she just thinks she can have a more exciting life.

Because Wu Mei is a very perseverant and positive person.

If she had put that energy into herself, she could have a more wonderful life.

As for her original family, she can wait until she has enough ability to support them.

But helping her original family doesn't mean she has to drag herself down.

But at the beginning, what she saw in Wu Mei was someone who devoted her all to her original family.

Wei Wei looked at the three stunned men again and said, "Actually, these words are not just for women, they apply to men as well. You can work in industry, politics, medicine, the military, and any other profession and stand at the highest level.

Boys should have goals and responsibilities. Your goal should be to succeed, not to carry on the family line."

Even the noisy Li Zhibin fell silent after hearing this. Which man doesn't want to carry on the family line, let alone a family like theirs where they are the only son.

Liu Jiaojiao, who was standing by, felt that these words were deafening, but after thinking about it, she was still confused, and she didn't know which one she wanted.

So he looked at Wei Wei and Jiang Qi and said, "But I still don't know which one I want, and I still don't know what I should do in the future."

Wei Wei thought for a moment, "I've heard this: we can be in politics, medicine, teaching, or any other profession. As long as we don't follow our husbands, we can stand out in any profession.

Respect, rights, status, and the right to speak are all more important issues than love.

In fact, nothing can be achieved overnight. Whether it is finding yourself or your dreams, they are all discovered through the slow exploration of the world.

It's not that you know what you want and what you want to get in your life.

Of course, there may be people who know what they want from the beginning, but obviously I am not, and neither are you."

Jiang Qi nodded, "That's true, we didn't know where we came from or where we were going from the beginning.

You need to slowly explore the path you want to take in the future on your own, and it’s not just us telling you what to do.”